PEREGRINUS EXPECTAVI

hernameishelen:

peregrinusexpectavi:

hernameishelen:

peregrinusexpectavi:

hernameishelen:

peregrinusexpectavi:

hernameishelen:

[snip]

What the hell

I wasn’t attacking your mental stability, so you can stop this guilt-tripping shit right there.

I remain steadfast: there is no excuse for using misogynistic slurs. That is all.

Cool shit. I’m cool with using “cunt”. I’m sorry if you are not.

’ Cool shit’ ? How dismissive. Is that what you say whenever someone calls you out?

You say you care  about social justice issues, and  yet you’re ok with using misogynistic language? You know, just because your little self-important person is  ~cool with it doesn’t make it any less offensive.

I had a break down last night. My usual pattern of behaviour the next day is this - apathy towards the feelings of others. Talk to me tomorrow. I’ll probably be more receptive.

Unless you want a brick wall to vent against. Then I am more than happy to oblige.

Or y’know, accuse me of … IDK, something else. “Not trying hard enough” … whatever.

Am I supposed to feel sorry for you or something?

Drop the fucking martyr complex already. I’m not gonna heap accusations on you .

I’ve seen you were dismissive, manipulative, and misogynistic. I don’t really want to see more of you.

peregrinusexpectavi:

it was on purpose: peregrinusexpectavi: raumlet: Everyone see what’s going on between me…

raumlet:

peregrinusexpectavi:

raumlet:

Everyone see what’s going on between me and Khaj right now? This is me trolling, everybody. This be how I troll.

now Khaj…

Well, if you are all that  intent on ridiculing yourself, by all means, carry on.

hernameishelen:

peregrinusexpectavi:

hernameishelen:

peregrinusexpectavi:

hernameishelen:

[Fuck you fuck you fuck you…] Yea, that’s right, use your NON-problematised definition to undermine someone’s problematised identity, cuz y’know, YOU CERTAINLY KNOW BETTER. FUCK YOU YOU FUCKING CUNTY ASSHAT.

So someone criticises the misogyny they think goes with demisexuality, and you respond with a misogynistic slur? Flawless arguing tactics there. And by flawless, I mean despicable. P.S. Rape trolling is not the way to go either, since some seem to need a reminder.

I’m not arguing. I’m venting because I’m not coherent enough right now to tell you why you’re actually wrong about demisexuality. Sorry about that, I’ll get right on becoming a perfect paragon of mental stability.

What the hell

I wasn’t attacking your mental stability, so you can stop this guilt-tripping shit right there.

I remain steadfast: there is no excuse for using misogynistic slurs. That is all.

Cool shit. I’m cool with using “cunt”. I’m sorry if you are not.

’ Cool shit’ ? How dismissive. Is that what you say whenever someone calls you out?

You say you care  about social justice issues, and  yet you’re ok with using misogynistic language? You know, just because your little self-important person is  ~cool with it doesn’t make it any less offensive.

raumlet:

peregrinusexpectavi:

raumlet:

Everyone see what’s going on between me and Khaj right now? This is me trolling, everybody. This be how I troll.

now Khaj reply how I’m a rape troll again, I want to be more of a troll to you in the way that I actually am a troll.

obsessed.mp3

Oh baby,…

a) Don’t you fucking dare call me ‘baby’.

b) No matter how hard you try to deny it, what you’re doing here is the tumblr equivalent of flinging your shit at the walls while screaming “PAY ATTENTION TO MEEEE” in order to annoy someone who’s left an hour ago.

hernameishelen:

peregrinusexpectavi:

hernameishelen:

[Fuck you fuck you fuck you…] Yea, that’s right, use your NON-problematised definition to undermine someone’s problematised identity, cuz y’know, YOU CERTAINLY KNOW BETTER. FUCK YOU YOU FUCKING CUNTY ASSHAT.

So someone criticises the misogyny they think goes with demisexuality, and you respond with a misogynistic slur? Flawless arguing tactics there. And by flawless, I mean despicable. P.S. Rape trolling is not the way to go either, since some seem to need a reminder.

I’m not arguing. I’m venting because I’m not coherent enough right now to tell you why you’re actually wrong about demisexuality. Sorry about that, I’ll get right on becoming a perfect paragon of mental stability.

I wasn’t attacking your mental stability, so you can stop this guilt-tripping shit right there.

I remain steadfast: there is no excuse for using misogynistic slurs. That is all.

hernameishelen:

[Fuck you fuck you fuck you…] Yea, that’s right, use your NON-problematised definition to undermine someone’s problematised identity, cuz y’know, YOU CERTAINLY KNOW BETTER. FUCK YOU YOU FUCKING CUNTY ASSHAT.

demisexuality:

peregrinusexpectavi:

demisexuality:

The second you say something someone doesn’t like, they immediately peg you as homophobic, cissexist, appropriating things, dismissing rape survivors and anything else that’s going on in the community at the time you said it. So last night was getting all kinds of anon messages claiming:

• I was…

A bloo bloo bloo it’s all about me me me

get off the cross we need the wood

 Uh, it’s a personal post. Did you not notice the “I’m” in the title or the fact that the entire thing was about reasons I’m not going to bother with the ace community? These are observations I’ve made from sitting through all the shit that’s been going on for the last six months since I first started blogging within the community. But I’m guessing because it’s me talking about the community and not wanting to bother with it much anymore, it’s not supposed to not be from my point of view or express my frustrations and things that have happened to me that are making me say “That’s it, I’m done”? Nor am I allowed to defend myself against the shit coming into my inbox and circulating tumblr?

I wrote “wah wah it’s all about me” because you  bring  everything back to yourself and your hurt feelings

Multiple issues withtin the ace community? misogyny? homophobia? bigotry? who cares?

Criticism of your precious little person ? OH NOES I R BEING VICITIMISED I QUIT FOREVAR

For fuck’s  sake, I am not trying to silence you. You have every right to post from a personal perspective  and defend yourself against those mean anons. And I’m allowed to lol at your self-centered whining and your martyr complex the size of Siberia.

So I’ll say it again, get off the goddamn cross.

demisexuality:

The second you say something someone doesn’t like, they immediately peg you as homophobic, cissexist, appropriating things, dismissing rape survivors and anything else that’s going on in the community at the time you said it. So last night was getting all kinds of anon messages claiming:

• I was…

hydechua:

saltmarshhag:

I’m fucking tired of Internet ace objections to the fact that homophobic institutions would prefer all queer people to be asexual. No, they don’t just want us to not act on desires - when they have historically hooked queers up to machines that deliver electric shocks or…

“queer lifestyle” < = > … “electric shock lifestyle”?

Scary thought. Either way, I’m not sure I like barley tea.

was that supposed to be witty or

barbeauxbot:

From a guest post by Sara Rees Brennan on sfwa.org

 

“So I was reading a book the other day, and in it was a heroine who described herself as plain and unappealing and unlovable. Fine by me, I thought, and waited for her to change her mind. She did seem to feel better about her looks because a boy liked them. I waited for something else: she ended the book convinced she was nothing much.

 

I closed the book with a slam and thought ‘What–what–what is this?’

But I knew what it was.”

 

Read the rest on sfwa.org